The article that I read discussed the aftermath of the children's emotional states in West Kingston following the violence in West Kingston (UNICEF, 2010). The amazing information in this article is that teachers, mostly early childhood educators, were trained in using music, art, dance, and play therapy to help the children when they came back to school to express their feelings and unrest about the violence (UNICEF, 2010). The teachers also found it therapeutic for themselves to go through the training as they lost loved ones from the violence as well (UNICEF, 2010). The teachers found this approach to be especially helpful for the children as children were able to be honest about their experiences and use the arts and play to express themselves (UNICEF, 2010). The teachers were amazed at some of the drawings and paintings that the children made that portrayed the violence they had endured and seen (UNICEF, 2010).
As an early childhood educator, I have worked in many different places. One school came to mind when I was reading the article about the children in Jamaica. One of my first jobs was as a kindergarten teacher in a school in Chicago. The area was described as poverty and the children and families I served endured violence every day living close to gang warfare, drugs, and prostitution. The children walked out of their living places every morning greeted by drug dealers and gang members. So I always tried to make sure that school was their safe place and a place they could enjoy coming to on a daily basis. One day, an intruder came into my classroom and mugged me in front of the children. He threatened that he had a gun and would come back and kill me if I told anyone. Thankfully he left without any physical harm to me or the children but emotional scarring had occurred. As I tried to get help in my classroom which was difficult with no classroom phone and no way to contact other teachers, my children started to cry one by one until every child in the room was crying. While trying to console the children, I pulled out a bingo game and started playing with the children just to get them to calm down and bring some normalcy back. I listened to the children as they expressed their fears while we played. The game playing also helped me to stay calm and be there for my children. When the principal asked the children what had happened after hearing my story, they were able to give her every detail about what happened. What saddened me the most about this incident is that my kindergartners had to endure that violence every day outside of school in their neighborhood and should not have to experience it at school. What helped me to get through my own experience of being mugged and threatened was the support of my family and the resilience I saw in the children I taught.
While children are resilient and can endure more than we can imagine, they are still our precious treasures that we should protect and nurture. When something bad happens, we need to learn a lesson from the educators in Jamaica and allow children to express their honest feelings through avenues that are familiar to them.
References
UNICEF. (2010). After the violence, children in West
Kingston heal with help from their
teachers. Retrieved from http://www.unicef.org/infobycountry/jamaica_54208.html
Nicolette,
ReplyDeleteWow! I have no words to describe my feelings after reading your post. You showed great presence of mind despite being threatened at gun point. The children are lucky to have a teacher who thought of how best to keep them calm by playing Bingo.
Thanks for sharing the beautiful approach followed by teachers in Jamaica to cope with the violence that they and the children experience by using music, art, dance and play to express themselves.
Kudos to you!
Sonali
Thank you Sonali for reading my blog and your thoughtful comments! I would never wish violence on any teacher or children but the experience definitely taught me to be more vigilant of my surroundings and how to think better on my feet.
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Wow I'm so sorry that experience happened to you and your children. No one can imagine how you can even process something like that until it happens to you personally. What children experience very early in life can and does have a huge impact on their emotional development throughout the rest of their lives. I am sure that experience has changed you forever. I am amazed that you were able to keep calm in light of what was happening and able to get the children calmed down by playing a simple game. Wonderful job. We need more people and teachers like you in the world.
ReplyDeleteThanks Lindsey for your caring and thoughtful comments! It was frightening and I share my story whenever we talk about safety in our schools and changing the lockdown procedure.
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